07 April, 2020

Things I'm trying [really hard] avoid, #Pandemic edition: a List

- Overwatering my plants (I’m a Cancer, I heart water, and also? Yeah yeah: I've been known to "smother")

- Underestimating the power of a twenty-minute walk*

- *[After stricter stay indoors orders] Underestimating the power of a twenty-minute meditation/nap/session of just deliberately *breathing...*


refrigerated tents as emergency morgues, Central Park, New York City

- Retail-Therapy [particularly the buying of even more plants…]

- Comparing the quality/productivity/optimism of my pandemic experience to other people’s projected pandemic experience on the internet

- Despair

- Watching Tiger King on Netflix

- [UPDATE: 24 hours later] …talking about anything other than Tiger King on Netflix

- Giving up or giving in.


truck-refrigerators: emergency morgues for the surplus dead of New York City 

- “Letting myself go” and getting used to being THIS level of consistently “un-groomed” [AKA: cave person]

- Watching the bombastic, biased, calamity-click-baiting news. Like at all.

- The feeling that I have to “do” anything.


Brooklyn hospital, April 4, 2020

- The feeling that I have to “use this time” to write the next great novel / get in the best shape of my life / finally learn Mandarin, and if I don’t, I am a huge pandemic loser

- Negative self-talk

- Crazy-lady-screaming at people on the street who are not properly observing mask-guidelines and adequate social distancing

- A creeping sense of impending doom

- Listening to the voice that says, go ahead, al, fall into that dark, downward spiral…

- Panicking


the newly renovated Javitts Center converted to 2500-bed emergency hospital






06 April, 2020

Things I do when the world is "Too Much:" A List



  • Walk around my neighborhood (in a mask and gloves, of course)
  • Read a poem aloud
  • Write a postcard to someone I love or miss
  • Learn a new recipe and make it
  • Water a plant
  • Watch a vintage crime show
  • Smell an essential oil
  • Go to Miss Piggy's social media accounts and GET SCHOOLED
  • Mend things (wall cracks, torn garments, broken appliances)
  • Google image search “BUNNIES” 
  • Plan an imaginary trip
  • Do a guided meditation
  • Cook something that requires garlic and onions and butter
  • Borrowing my friend Alley’s car and driving somewhere, anywhere
  • Observing clouds
  • Learning from my cat, Tatiana, and her supreme wisdom regarding Self Love and Total Acceptance 
  • Light a candle 
  • Breathe deeply
  • Take a break from it all for 20 seconds. 


© hula seventy

04 April, 2020

Most memorable moments this week: a List


- Waiting impatiently for my new prescription medication, promising to bring such relief, which came nearly 4 days later than anticipated because, ya know, global pandemic.

- Receiving my new prescription medication, via brave delivery man, for free thanks to my insurance. I cried.

- Repotting all our house plants and feeling the joy of new oxygen and life inside the walls of the beloved Winter Palace

- Tati intuitively knowing my sorrow, and electing to nuzzle with me as “baby spoon” on the sofa when she could tell I felt extra miserable 



- Sharing our second-ever Shabbat at home; so chilling when the whole world is in a permanent "Sabbath" - making Sabbath special in the face of this reality.

- Meditating. Daily. At dawn. (Who do I think I am, a person in a lifestyle magazine? What will I do next— alkaline my body? Swear my inner glow is from drinking water and nothing else?)

- Writing at least 5 postcards every day

- Watching the magnolia trees bloom

- Holding my love while he wept

- The feeling of the sun on my skin

- The twists and turns of Westworld

- The twists and turns of THIS ACTAULFREAKINGWORLD

- Feeling the collective “spine crack” of the world on Sunday night, as the reality of this pandemic, its death toll, its economic toll, its length and breadth, and utter devastation truly sets in across the city and the country and the globe…


- The news announcing that 100-200K deaths as the projected "good news..." 

- Watching Governor Cuomo kick unbelievable freakin' ass. 

- The state and city officially under executive lockdown

- The slow, meditative pleasure in making a perfect cup of coffee

- The micro-bucolic pleasure of buying, potting and caring for indoor plants. Bringing the outside in. Caring for living things. Seeing them thrive.
 
- The quietest Saturday night I’ve ever seen (and I’ve spent a Saturday night in SIBERIA)

- Hanging a bird feeder 

outside our window (so Tati can watch the birds) and then? Watching her watch the damn birds.

- The extraordinary irony of it being ...April Fool’s Day. 



"joy is there: everywhere"







02 April, 2020

Creative Exercises for the Quarantined Brain — Part 2

© Nick Bantock
Steve Jobs famously said that “creativity is just connecting things.” But anyone facing a creative block knows it’s a lot harder than grabbing ideas out of thin air. And we sure have a lot of very very thin air these days.

Creativity can be made to seem complex, but it is as easy and natural as it was when we were children, society has merely conditioned the art of PLAY out of us as adults.

And no, KAREN, there’s no “creativity gene” or section of your brain responsible for creative thought. Creativity isn’t for dumbbells or woo-people in tie-dye, or for the professionals. We can’t choose to turn creativity on or off. As the Atlantic reports, many studies have found that creativity happens unconsciously and beyond our control, and I say let it flow, baby...

One’s ability to come up with novel ideas (not merely, “beautiful” or “award-winning” or “conventionally artistic” ideas) is now one of the job market’s most sought-after skills. “Solutions-based thinking” is a buzz phrase bandied about a lot in the corporate world. Well, what are solutions other than creative ideas for conventional problems?

As an artist, however, I rely upon my creativity not only as my livelihood but to keep me pushing forward as a human being, feeling a sense of purpose, drive, expression, and meaning in and with my creative outputs.

Luckily, just like anything, we can get our creativity into better shape simply by engaging with it! And like any skill, practice makes better, and that can only be achieved with some exercises!

Onward.

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1. Keep it Simple

Problems are often obscured by an overload of information. Clarify and isolate the challenge you face by spending time understanding and defining the problem.

Can you simplify it down to 10 words?
5 words?
3?
Or even just 1?

By constricting your language, you have to boil your project/pitch/idea down to its absolute most essential self, identifying the kernel and thus giving yourself a chance to really tackle it with laser-beam focus.

Project: Writer Ernest Hemingway famously laid down a challenge to write a story in six words. One of his is infamously gut-wrenching.

"For sale: baby shoes, never worn."

Try it for yourself— a complete story with a beginning, middle and end in six words. Or perhaps update this to a 21st century Twitter challenge and write an entire story in 140 characters.


2. Complete the Picture

This is quick exercise dubbed “The Doodle Dandy” I found on the (sadly now-defunct) webiste How Design.

Exercise:

- Create a stack of simple one-line phrases on scrap paper

Here is their sample phrase list, though I encourage you to come up with your own.

"Happy as a clam"

“Time and time again“

"Where in the world?"

“Feed your head“

"Human nature"

"The art of noise"

and  "Here comes trouble"

- Next cut up blank scrap paper, and mindlessly draw a few stray lines on each page as a starting point.

- Select one phrase, and one doodle paper from each pile… 

- And draw the phrase using the already-existing lines on the doodle page.


3. Set Tight Deadlines (And Hit Them)

Break your current project up into the tiniest possible increments and set short, strict deadlines for yourself. (This isn’t just helpful for creativity by the way — I do this with household chores too! Instead of “clean apartment” I divide the list into micro tasks and take delicious pleasure in checking them off!)

For example, say you’ll write down five new places to find customers every 10 minutes for an hour, or that you’ll write 250 words of a new blog post every 15 minutes.

Wanna really add some tequila to this here cocktail? Take a tip from lifecoacth and bestselling author Jen Sincero and “make a bet with someone ‘mean.’” Or, fine, someone who will very seriously hold you accountable to your promises and deadlines, who will not let you slide despite any excuse to devise (including, say, GLOBAL PANDEMIC).

Sincero also suggests you bet something painful to lose, like an amount of money you have, but would be painful to see disappear. Fear of failure and fear of losing something you care about can do wonders for your self-discipline. Up the ante? Make the check out to an organization that makes your flesh crawl, and send it to your friend who will send it immediately should you let the deadline slide.

Having an accountability partner is critical to success, but this makes it ya know: spicy.


4. Alternative Uses

“Alternative use” creativity exercises have been around for many years. For example, in 1967 J.P. Guilford developed a creativity test (of sorts) that gave participants two minutes to think of as many possible uses for a common household object. This experiment is now commonly referred to at the “paper-clip test.”

While participants don’t actually have to construct different uses, some ideas are weighted more heavily than others.

Responses are ranked according to the four categories in divergent thinking:     - fluency (how many you named)
    - originality (how common the answers are)
    - flexibility (how many unique subjects you cross)
    - and elaboration (level of detailed response).


Project 1: The Paper clip test
    - Take an ordinary paper clip and place it before you.
    - set a timer for 2 minutes.
    - Write down as many unconventional ideas for the paper clip

Here are some fun options:
  • a zipper replacement
  • an earring
  • a fishhook
  • a toilet fixer
  • sculpture making material
  • a tool to reset the router
  • an ear-piercing device
  • a lock pick
  • an ornament hanger
  • a photo holder
  • cuticle pusher cleaner,
  • a hairpin.

Project 2: Turn trash into treasure—
Collect all the junk mail that comes through your letterbox today and turn it into something of great value.
What else can you do with a newspaper?
A political flyer?
A take out menu?

We see most things—objects, buildings, spaces, materials, technology, and systems—through the lens of habit and familiarity. We take them for granted, overlooking numerous other possibilities. Combat the mind’s tendency to assume that something can only function in a familiar way. Asking yourself “What else can I do with this?” will lead to new discoveries and ideas.


01 April, 2020

On this, the 1st day of April: a List

Dawn, welcomed
Coffee, consumed
Journal, written in
Tati, fed
News, avoided
Plants, watered
Prayers, offered

Deep breaths, taken
Breakfast, considered (but not eaten)
New day, pondered
New way of life-as-we-know-it, pondered



31 March, 2020

Things seen on my solo-walk today: a List

- a can of root beer, completely flattened

- not one single open shop or restaurant or store

- a flattened, abandoned N95 face mask

- a singular latex glove

- the east river, almost utterly still, like glass

- a brand new park at 34th Ave and the East River that I’ve never laid eyes on before, despite living in Astoria for almost a decade.

- crushed magnolia leaves, just fallen

- what appeared to be the entire contents of a Queens apartment, left out at the curb, in neat piles, as if they were furniture corpses evidenced of a previous life being laid out in greatest, Viking-funeral-like, respect

- an accidental arrangement of garbage so lovely I walked around it so as not to disturb it

- a couple doing laundry at the laundromat in makeshift hazmat suits

- a man walking his beagle in a scuba mask, terror in his eyes

- a little bit of sunshine, which went a long, long way

30 March, 2020

'Together and by Ourselves' By Alex Dimitrov

I opened the window so I could hear people.

Last night we were together and by ourselves.
You. You look and look at Diver
for Crane by  Johns and want to say something.
In the water you are a child without eyes.
Yesterday there was nothing on the beach
and no one knows where it came from.
There’s a small animal lodged somewhere inside us.
There are minutes of peace.
Just the feel.   Just this once. Where does the past,
where should the period go?
What is under the earth followed them home.
The branch broke. It broke by itself. It did break, James.
We were there and on silent. We were delete, shift, command.
Slow — in black — on an orange street sign.
Missing everywhere and unwritten — suddenly — all at once.
Him. He misses a person and he is still living.
I haven’t missed you for long and you are so gone.
Then he stepped away from the poem midsentence    . . .
we must have been lonely people to say those things then.
But there are rooms for us now and sculptures to look at.
In the perfect field someone has left everything
including themselves. You. You should stay here.
It’s a brutal and beautiful autumn.
With his hands in the sand, on the earth, under time
he touched something else.
People are mostly what they can’t keep and keeps them.
And inside the circular cage of the Ferris wheel you saw the world.
In the steam, on the mirror: you wrote so so so    . . .
so if   you’re looking for answers you’re looking
at every water tower around here.
Why does the sea hold what it loves most below?
Fear. Hopeless money. All the news and the non-news.
How could anyone anywhere know us? What did we make?
And the leather of   your chair   . . .    it has me marked
so good luck forgetting. The world was a home.
It was cruel. It was true. It was not realistic.
Make sure you date and sign here then save all the soft things.
Because everyone wants to know when it was,
how it happened — say something about it.
How the night hail made imprints all over.
Our things. Our charming and singular things.
- Source: Poetry (December 2013)

Art by Catherine Lepange from Thin Slices of Anxiety: Observations and Advice to Ease a Worried Mind



29 March, 2020

Things STILL Sacred: A List

“Meanwhile, in this blink of existence bookended by nothingness, we busy ourselves with survival and with searching for beauty, for truth, for assurance between the bookends. The feeling of that search is what we call meaning; the people who light our torches to help us see better, who transmit our discoveries from one consciousness to another, are what we call artists. Artists are also the ones who help reconcile us to the fragility that comes with our creaturely nature and strews our search with so much suffering. Suffering — biological and psychological, in private and en masse — has always accompanied our species, as it has every species. But we alone have coped by transmuting our suffering into beauty, by making symphonies and paintings and poems out of our fragility — beauty that does not justify the suffering, but does make it more bearable, does help the sufferers next to us and after us, in space and in time, suffer less, in ways the originating consciousness can never quantify in the receiving, never estimate their reach across the sweep of centuries and sufferings.” — Maria Popova (of “Brain Pickings”)
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Journaling
The laughter of a friend
The feeling of connection, however remotely
Creativity
Quiet
The world turning on its axis
Hope
Candles
Home-cooked meals
The wisdom of animals
Time
Reading
Poetry
Contemplation
Curiosity
Sex
Morning coffee
Watching the sunrise
Long walks at a distance
Belly laughing
Having a shower or bath
Ice cold water
Listening
Rain
Completing a puzzle
Playing games

Friendship
Your favorite movie
The choosing of joy
The sound of birds
Prayer
The miracle of dawn
The endurance of the human spirit




hope.





26 March, 2020

Creative Exercises for the Quarantined Brain — Part 1


When we were young, creative play came easily.
A cardboard box became a three-bedroom house, a hospital or a spaceship as you battled the local neighbors in the yard. Children are used to looking at objects for what they can be, instead of what they ARE, at face value.

As adults, as we experience more criticism and feedback, are told to be “realistic” and “practical,” in or ambitions, imaginations and scope of the wider world, and as a result, the Adult Self becomes less open to playful and creative thinking. Think about those first moments transitioning from childhood to adulthood— the dawn of middle school where children and young adults start to mature and become “aware” of their selfhood in internal and external ways, becoming suddenly self-conscious and judgmental. The truth is, this is the moment we as humans get embarrassed more easily— about everything! Not simply at our ideas. And, in turn, we lose our creative freedom.

All animals play as a form of practicing for life’s necessities. Lions “play” with one another at hunting, to be in shape for when the kill is truly on. So too must we! This shaming of Play is not only a detriment to the very “productivity” our society holds so dearly, but we do extraordinary damage to our psyches, with invisible, but very real scars.

So whether you’re feeling distracted, out of ideas, or are coming up against a creative wall, here are some creativity exercises to help get the juices flowing.

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1. Be “Notice-y”
My father had a really sweet phrase he used with me when I was little. He called me “NOTICE-Y.” I guess he observed that I had a gift for visual foraging—spotting, getting curious about, and ultimately utilizing things I’d “notice” that most others overlooked. “That was very notice-y!” He’d say, and I’ve never forgotten it.

I’m pretty sure I got the quality from him. I remember a particular charming story about my Dad in the “notice-y”department one incredibly ordinary summer day when we were sitting on the bench outside our front porch peeling and eating oranges. My Dad was such an Innocent (in the archetypal way)—he reminded me of Feste from Twlefth Night: a wise child’s spirit in the body of an adult man. He looked down at the orange he had just peeled, observed the perfectly even slices and laughed with glee. “Look Al,” he exclaimed, “pre-sliced food! Isn’t the world amazing?” He was in earnest.

Having an active rather than idle curiosity about the world around you reveals bigger ideas. So be “notice-y!” Take note, be eye-sy, ears-y and nosey.


Project: Spot and collect the faces, animals, letterforms, and numbers that are accidentally created by wear, repair, time, decay, spillage, breakage, update, replacement, light, shadow, rain, or snow. Some of these things only reveal themselves when you look at them sideways, upside down, or in reverse.

Use a journal, a camera, a voice recorder— anything you have to do to get it all down.




2. Magic Circles

This is undoubtedly one of my absolute favorite exercises for quickly shaking up the settlements at the bottom of our personal creative “tanks.” A quick exercise that anyone can do with just a writing implement and paper.

Exercise:

Take a look at the worksheet below and either print it off or replicate the blank circles by hand on your paper.

Next, set a timer for three minutes and get sketching! Your goal is to utilize as many of the circles (with somewhat recognizable objects) as you can during that time— don’t feel obligated to stay WITHIN the circle, you can think outside the circle, and view the circle as a portal to infinite possibility. And above all: turn off the inner censor! Don’t allow your inner critic to evaluate the drawings, but make as many as you can. No artistic ability required.

It may sound simple, but you’ll find after you get through the obvious basketballs and peace signs of the world, your brain will be forced to start thinking differently and with greater creative complexity to fill in the rest of the circles. (This could also be done in a group, it’s exciting to get inspired by how others approach this exercise).

No matter what, the circles exercise is sure to leave your brain feeling a little looser at the end—and ready to tackle the next challenge before you.




3. Detective Work. (From The Artist’s Way)

“Many blocked people are actually very powerful and creative personalities who have been made to feel guilty about their own strengths and gifts. Without being acknowledged, they are often used as batteries by their families and friends, who feel free to both use their creative energies and disparage them
When these blocked artists strive to break free of their dysfunctional systems, they are often urged to be sensible when such advice is not appropriate for them. Made to feel guilty for their talents they often hide their own light under a bushel for fear of hurting others. Instead, they hurt themselves.
A little sleuth work is in order to restore the person we have abandoned—ourselves. When you complete the following phrases, you may feel strong emotion as you retrieve memories and misplaced fragments of yourself. Allow yourself to free-associate for a sentence or so with each phrase.
” — Julia Cameron, from The Artist's Way

Exercise:
List the following prompts on paper or in your journal.

Set aside at least 20 minutes of quiet, uninterrupted time to answer, and listen to your inner voice as the answers emerge from your past.

Remember: growth is a turbulent movement: three steps forward, one step back. This exercise can bring up a lot of emotions to the surface of our consciousness, so remember to take time and space, and ultimately, to be very gentle with yourself.


- My favorite childhood toy was

- My favorite childhood game was

- The best movie I saw as a kid was

- I don’t do it much, but I enjoy

- If I weren’t too late I’d

- My favorite musical instrument is

- If I weren’t so stringy with my artist, I’d buy them…

- Taking time out for myself is

- I am afraid that if I start dreaming…

- I secretly enjoy…

- If I had the perfect childhood I’d have grown up to be

- If it didn’t sound so crazy, I’d write or make a…

- My parents think (or thought) artists are…

- What makes me feel weird about [artistic] recovery is…

- Learning to trust myself is probably…

- My most cheer-me-up music is…

- My favorite way to dress is…



25 March, 2020

Quarantine Books - Part 2

Ahhh books.

Part two of this “Quaran-reads” series delivers peace and tranquility for the now-omnipresent, quieter life.

The great German poet, novelist, painter, and Nobel laureate Hermann Hesse (July 2, 1877–August 9, 1962), made an exquisite case for breaking the trance of busyness with the sanctity of solitude when he wrote:


    “Solitude is the path over which destiny endeavors to lead man to himself. Solitude is the path that men most fear. A path fraught with terrors, where snakes and toads lie in wait… Without solitude there is no suffering, without solitude there is no heroism. But the solitude I have in mind is not the solitude of the blithe poets or of the theater, where the fountain bubbles so sweetly at the mouth of the hermit’s cave.” — Hermann Hesse

For this collection, I searched for tomes that offer solace in, and seek the beauty of, Solitude. Hope for the shut-in. Salve for the isolated.

The isolated that thinks it looks like this while it reads in quarantine:


© "Ophelia Exquisite," Pierre-Auguste Cot
But truly looks like this: 

Boom: WOLFMAN!

But I digress.

Enjoy, and may we face the coming pandemic cradled by a more patient view of time and what it means to evolve.

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[Repeated] PSA:

In all times, but particularly in these times of extraordinary economic struggle for all, I strongly advise you philanthropic and socially-minded readers to support your local communities by purchasing your books locally from local bookstores—many of whom are happy to or ship books to your door, or drop them off personally, at least six feet away from your face.

Buying at local stores keeps money in the local community, supports independent enterprises and also reduces your carbon footprint!

There are a number of sites that make it easier to find and support local independent bookstores in your area.

Chief among them:

• IndieBound.org: Find bookstores and other independent retailers near you. (Says Indiebound: “Spend $100 at a local and $68 of that stays in your community. Spend the same $100 at a national chain, and your community only sees $43.”)

Other book resources:
• WorldCat.org: Search for a book title at your local library!

(Right now, it is very helpful to make financial donations to local libraries for those who cannot afford to purchase new or used books, and I strongly encourage you to sign up for the library’s downloadable books programs to avoid unnecessary public outings.)

• Bookshare provides accessible books and periodicals for readers with print disabilities. Everyone, of every ability, deserves the gift of reading!

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See? Reading material AND a workout!
1. Remembrance of Things Past by Marcel Proust

Wow, you guys. What an opportunity.

Remembrance of Things Past by Marcel Proust is an epic internal journey back to the taste of madeleines, the smell of budding groves, and the company of long-gone lovers and friends. It requires a lot of time and quiet thinking space to appreciate it to its fullest, and que puis-je dire? No time like the present quarantine to make the perfect space for this beautiful classic.

So yesterday I sat down beneath my perfectly arched reading vintage lamp, Tatiana the cat curled and purring by my side, and plowed straight through Remembrance of Things Past. All 4000 pages. In one sitting. I am now unable to stand back up because my legs have atrophied.
Ah well. What a treat.
And speaking of a treat, does anyone know of a good place to have madeleines shipped directly to my door and delivered by a masked person wearing a beret?

APRIL FOOLS. 

Are you kidding?
Well I was.
Could ANYONE read Remembrance of Things Past straight through in one day’s worth of reading? I mean. I dunno. These are strange times. Yesterday I alphabetized my hard-copy sheet music and cleaned all the sink crud with a toothbrush. It could happen.
Stranger things have. Maybe. Peut-être. Des choses étranges se sont produites…

But for the average Joe, I wager not even a straight month of devoted reading could allow one the (truly, no snark here) exquisite pleasure of reading the seven (oui, seven) volumes that comprise Remembrance of Things Past. (The entire collection is also known as In Search of Lost Time, in certain English translations — and what a pointed translation of the title for our Quarantined times).

But don’t let the heft of Proust’s work deter you from starting the foray into his world of lost time regained through vividly-portrayed memories. Swann’s Way and Time Regained in particular, the first and last volumes, are truly beautiful and can (and should!) be read over long stretches, leaving plenty of time for deeper reflection.

Perhaps we all have a bit of Proust within us, and that is why his writing resonates, whether you read just a bit or the whole crêpe.

I also highly recommended the audiobook version of the complete works of Remembrance of Things Past, the 2012 vision read by Neville James is currently available through Audible here. As an audiobook consumer and narrator myself I find Neville James’ performance to hit the just-right balance of caring-for-the-listener’s experience, whilst also giving them the space required to HAVE their own experience. It’s a delicate balance with fiction, and God bless audiobooks in this, and in all, times.

Marcel Proust is the ultimate in life’s recorders: proving to be everything from humorous to seemingly smart, profound and alacritous in his portrayal of a life recorded, observed, and recovered.

All of that is true: no fooling.


2. How to Do Nothing (Resisting the Attention Economy) by Jenny Odell

A message to me from my iPhone:


    “Dear Al, your screen was up 57348573094293847098% this week”

Well no shit, Siri. Thanks a lot. And by the way: people wearing jeans? What are you trying to prove?

Look, what can you do? Self-limiting one’s time in the “Other World” of The Cloud was tough literally designed for our addiction long before COVID. It feels like we have only two choices: to succumb to the lure of our devices for hours a day, every single day, or we can delete all apps, throw our phone into the sea and move to a commune.

Not so, says Artist and writer Jenny Odell. She proposes a third option: to “participate, but not as asked.”

Her book How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy is adapted from a talk she gave in 2017 at the Minneapolis art and technology conference Eyeo. It’s not exactly a guide to doing nothing; more like a suggestion that you could refuse, you can empower yourself to change the level and quality and quantity of your engagement and to more consciously structure participating in the things that splinter your attention.

A nice little post-script from John Francisconi:


    “Before COVID-19, the title of Jenny Odell’s wise primer for disengaging from our devices was a little funny. Now it seems crucially instructive. Thankfully, the book’s also, sneakily, an eagle-eyed look at how its readers can make a big difference in their communities.”


3. The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran

Speaking of Quiet, I’ll go directly to the source. When Kahlil Gibran’s titular-prophet is asked to address the matter of talking, he responds:


“There are those among you who seek the talkative through fear of being alone.
The silence of aloneness reveals to their eyes their naked selves and they would escape.
And there are those who talk, and without knowledge or forethought reveal a truth which they themselves do not understand.
And there are those who have the truth within them,
    but they tell it not in words.
In the bosom of such as these, the spirit dwells in rhythmic silence.”

The Prophet is a collection of poetic essays that are philosophical, spiritual, and, above all, inspirational. Undoubtedly Kahlil Gibran’s masterpiece, The Prophet, published in 1923 is one of the most beloved classics of our time.

26 prose poetry fables written in English by the Lebanese-American artist, philosopher, and writer Kahlil Gibran. (Its popularity peaked in the 1930s and again in the 1960s when it became the bible of the non-judgmental, religiously neutral but spiritually full, counter-culture.)


This slight (but pregnant) volume introduces us to the prophet, Almustafa, who has lived in the foreign city of Orphalese for twelve years and is about to board a ship that shall carry him home. He is stopped by a group of people, with whom he discusses such topics as giving, eating and drinking, work, joy and sorrow, housing, clothes,  laws, freedom, reason and passion, pain, talking, time, prayer, pleasure, and death. Each essay reveals deep insights into the impulses of the human heart and mind. Gibran’s musings are divided into twenty-eight chapters covering, among other things, marriage:
    "Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup."

children:
    ''Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.''

beauty:
    ''Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror.''


Gibran sketched 'the Prophet' after a dream
Gibran was a painter as well as a writer by training and was schooled in the symbolist tradition in Paris in 1908. He painted more than 700 pictures, watercolors, and drawings (but because most of his paintings were shipped back to Lebanon after his death, they have been overlooked in the West.) Some editions of The Prophet have twelve full-page drawings by Gibran himself.

What I personally think sets it apart (especially in delicate, universally adverse planetary moments such as these) is that The Prophet lacks all and/or any kind of dogma. It is accessible, not-at-all moralistic, open-hearted, utterly available wisdom to any seeker wherever they may find themselves on the Theistic spectrum. Not a Biblical person and want a Psalms-like companion for troubled times? The Prophet is the perfect companion.

24 March, 2020

Things Now Sacred: A List

“It is our biological destiny to exist — and then not. Each of us eventually returns their stardust to the universe, to be constellated into some other ephemeral emissary of spacetime. Eventually, our entire species will go the way of the dinosaurs and the dodo and the Romantics; eventually, our home star will live out its final moments in a wild spin before collapsing into a white dwarf, taking with it everything we have ever known — Beethoven’s Ode to Joy and the guillotine and the perfect Fibonacci sequence of the pine cone.” — Maria Popova

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  • The gratification of a firm handshake
  • Holding hands
  • Warm embraces
  • Parties
  • The theatre
  • Concerts
  • Sitting beside a stranger
  • The drudgery of everyday life
  • Lipstick
  • Full shelves at the store
  • The bustle of the streets
  • The farmer’s market
  • A wide-awake and roaring world
  • Thursday morning
  • Bustling streets
  •  A stranger’s smile and full face
  • Sharing food at a restaurant
  • Sidewalk cafes
  • Life itself. 
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    a quiet quarantine walk in Astoria...